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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread sadly makes me realize I’m at least not alone in being dismayed and hurt by my DH since we had a baby last year. Any attempts to discuss division of labor and, heaven forbid, him taking responsibility for ordering one of the many things our child needs lead to defensiveness, criticism, and, lately, name calling and downright nastiness. I recently got screamed at and called horrible things for saying we need to make dinner earlier when our kid was crying out of hunger since he was late getting it started (again). Why are men like this? Maybe I need to get out before we suffer much longer. [/quote]

If you're being screamed at and called horrible things, it sounds like it's time to leave. What kind of horrible things?

Dinner at our house is always late, so we give the kid a healthy snack beforehand. Something simple like cheese or bread.[/quote]

He calls me the b word, crazy, things like that. It escalates to no one would want to deal with you and even worse things. I tried to give her a snack though. Good idea. His dinner was bumping up in her bedtime so I was patient as long as I could be. He’s often late so I have ended up doing most dinners which is stressful on me. I tried to give him space and it was so disappointing. [/quote]

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