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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Posting a different viewpoint and wondering if any of the PP’s on this thread have viewed the police interview with the couple when Gabby was reported to the police for assaulting Brian in Moab ??

Because, maybe if more people watched that tape, they’d take a more neutral approach. Having watched the full one hour police bodycam interview of both Gabby & Brian I have a few questions :

1) Gabby was nearly arrested for assault of Brian - there was a witness who called the police and that is why the police pulled the couple over) in July - towards the end of that tape, Gabby calls her parents - so - where are the parents in this for the next 6 weeks ??? Think about it everyone: you , as the parent of a 22 year old - have just been called and notified that your daughter has been pulled over by the police and almost charged with battery - and given a court date - had the cop not changed his mind - you know she is unemployed, is living in a van ( homeless) and has no purpose other than trying to gain fame and influence through writing a “ blog” about how she and her bf are ,” having a great adventure exploring the west “ - except it’s obvious that is all FAKE - they are 2 unstable young people, without jobs and violence has broken out in their relationship in which they are holed up together in basically - living out of a vehicle

What is Brian’s obligation to her vs to himself ? He is not her husband or her father and he is same age as her . [b]He is free to leave her and just go home . [/b]That is not a crime . He is not supervising her as an adult over a minor ? She had attacked him previously and - had the Utah cops charged her as they could have, Gabby would have had to show up in court in Utah in August .

Maybe she assaulted him again ? Maybe she is unstable and ran away from him . Maybe she hitched a ride with someone else afterwards.

Granted, [b]he should have left on his own if the van was registered to her,[/b] but in the police video Gabby says that she doesn’t really ever drive the van so maybe - you all don’t know this - maybe they had an agreement that he go home in the Van . For all you know , maybe[b] all this drama is caused by this girl[/b]

Signed,
A woman [/quote]

Your victim blaming is vile.

Is there really no responsibility of ones fiancé to not put you in a dangerous situation or keep your safe? He also took her car leaving her now way out. Why didn't he take responsibility for himself and fly his ass home?

By your theory you should not expect your husband to keep you safe, ensuring you have shelter, food and money, correct? A marriage certificate doesn't grant you any more rights as a human than Gabby deserves. What if both your parents die, do you deserve less than someone with parents because no other adult human has to care about your wellbeing? I am sure you dont expect your babysitter, teacher or doctor to keep your children safe and make decisions in their best interest right?
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DP.  Victim blaming?

How do you even know she’s a victim??

For all you know, she left on her own and is living it up someplace.

You don’t know.  Anything.

But that didn’t stop you from going off emotionally on a stranger and calling them “vile.”[/quote]

DP. I watched the tape too and saw a girl totally spun up and scared and a guy that was cool as a cucumber. To me that tells a vastly different narrative than the one you put forth. So people can have watched the video and come to a very different conclusion, especially if they know anything about how abused women behave. [/quote]

As a victim of an abusive man/marriage, thank you so much for saying this. [/quote]

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