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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let’s look at this another way.  Lots of women replying to this thread claim they are very secure in their relationships with their husband and have healthy self-esteem, so this comment wouldn’t bother them in the slightest.  Fine, that’s totally fair.  What is NOT fair is to refuse to acknowledge that not everyone is as secure in their sexual desirability to their spouse as you are (and really, we all have stuff we feel insecure about).  Feeling insecure is not some moral failing, nor is it indicative of poor character or being pathetic or any other insult some of you have hurled.  Insecurity is part of human nature just as much as sexual attraction is.

That being said, OP is clearly insecure about this comment, which indicates she is most likely inclined to feeling insecure about her relationship and/or her own attractiveness.  And do you know who should have known this about her?  HER HUSBAND.  He could maybe have stopped to think “you know, I really love Larla but I know she’s feeling down about her recent weight gain/age/whatever, so I probably shouldn’t go around commenting on how hot the nanny is, because if larla heard that she’d probably feel really down...”

Just a thought.

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