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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly it’s kind of gross to me that these people even had a conversation about it. I get that it happens, but the idea of a group of people discussing the appearance of any woman behind their backs in these terms is sad to me. It’s sexual objectification of somebody who didn’t ask to be sexually objectified and that doesn’t seem okay to me. I don’t see how it’s that different from talking about somebody in an explicitly sexual way, like “she would be great in bed” or “her butt is super tight.” Why even have this conversation? Among grown adults? But that’s the way of the world I guess. [/quote]

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You act like OP's husband and his best friend spent hours discussing, objectifying, and researching OP's nanny. Instead, an offhand comment about how the nanny is hot was said. I honestly don't know how you people manage to function in the real world, with as spun up about this as you're getting. [/quote]

I function just fine, thanks. :)

And I’m not acting like I think these people were dissecting this woman’s looks for hours. [b]I responded to the OP exactly how it was written[/b]. I don’t know why you are reading so much into my comment. [/quote]

No, you said there was a "group of people" that were "discussing the appearance" of the nanny. OP's husband saying the nanny is hot to his best friend isn't what happened. You seriously don't think it's different than saying that someone would be great in bed? [/quote]

Okay fair. If you had looked at my other comments, you would have seen that somebody pointed out my error and I still feel the same way: two older married guys commenting the sexual attractiveness of one of their nannies is just icky to me. So I still feel the same way. And I do think it is different from saying how good they would be in bed but only to a degree and not by much. The term “hot” in reference to a person specifically refers to their sexual desirability.

I don’t think this is the worst thing in the world but I definitely don’t think it’s completely appropriate as a lot of these commenters do. Again, sitting around with friends discussing the sexual appeal of our employees just isn’t my jam. [/quote]

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