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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, the responses/self-justifications from cheaters on this thread completely demonstrate the mind of the cheater, as asked in the thread title.

They believe what they are doing is right and justified by their view of the circumstances and that they do not owe any transparency to their spouse and have no intention, desire or will to stop cheating.

This pretty much sums up my own experience with my cheater spouse with whom I was having sex multiple times a week.

After a period of time investigating him to figure out what he was really doing (as it was evident he was lying to me), I came to understand that our moral world views were fundamentally different and deeply incompatible and that I didn’t want to be tied to him any longer (indeed, it was unsafe, unhealthy and dangerous for me and the kids).

We split up, and I experienced a huge degree of relief and subsequent happiness.  [/quote]

Good for you.  From my experience I ignored all the red flags.  He didn't come from a good family, dad was no good. Our morals were completely different, and he didn't view cheating as a deal breaker.  Good morals demonstrated by a clean past should be the only candidates going forward. [/quote]

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