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[quote=Anonymous]^ NOT TRUE It does not address narcissists, personality disorders and sex addictions. Men that grew up with cheating/philandering fathers are 75% more likely to cheat as well. That has nothing to do with the quality of their current marriage. Gottman method is pure bullsh@t. Cheating is an active choice. The cheater is 200% responsible for their actions. Betrayal and sex outside of the marriage without their partner’s consent is always 100% on the cheater. 99.9% of couples therapy is crap because they don’t address any of the above. They expect to have the spouse blamed for their partner’s lying and cheating. I said hell no to couples therapy after the first time and how it made things worse. Cheater felt vindicated since counselor never stated the cheating was wrong and his choice.[/quote]
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