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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When we had kids, DW became a SAHM and our discussion was always that she’d return to the workforce at some point.  It’s now 15 years later, kids are in high school, and she is working part-time.  I just did our taxes and she only earned $18k last year - I am a GS-15 so by no means a rainmaker.  We are behind on savings, college 529, etc and I’m tired of having to agonize over every financial decision because our finances are so precarious.  DW has a Masters and could be making $60-70K full time but doesn’t want to - she has many stay at home friends who are married to rainmakers, but that’s not me.  I told her tonight that I’m at my wits end and she needs to step up.  She doesn’t want to work full time - neither do I but I suck it up for the family.  I’m very frustrated and can’t get DW to pick up the slack.  I am very involved at home and with the kids so she has supper there.  How can I make her understand that we can’t always get what we want?!?[/quote]

Your communication skills may be terrible or you both are not on the same page.  Sounds like your marriage, future, finances all are in a not good place. The amount you make is not insubstantial.  You could not save on that? How did you overextend yourself? Ask yourself that question and do some cost cutting measures. [/quote]

Or she can get a job.[/quote]

Yes, she should plan her exit. This marriage is over.[/quote]

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