Reply to I haven't figured out how people raise children in DC

Forum Index » Infants, Toddlers, & Preschoolers

Reply to "I haven't figured out how people raise children in DC"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hey, Ms. "Everyone get so defensive when asked why they only have one kid, they must subconsciously know they are selfish,"

Please point to the question in here:

[quote]I think it's a shame that people limit themselves to one child [b]so they can live in a small house or apartment in an over-priced area and afford private school if necessary[/b]. Having siblings is a good thing for so many reasons. Most of the folks I know who decided to "stop at one" did so because they're not willing to give up anything for their kids, rather than because they think it's the best environment for a child. Not criticizing. Just keeping in real. [/quote]You can't, can you?  Asking the question is fine.  Making inflamatory, offensive statements criticizing others' choices is certainly your right, but don't be surprised when others react strongly.  Saying just having one child is "a shame" and the result of parents who are "not willing to give anything for their kids" is offensive, and acting wounded when you're called on it (and attributing the reaction to defensiveness and the subconscious knowledge that you are correct) is either intellectually dishonest or intellectually deficient.  So, which are you?  [/quote]

OP of that post here.  I said that limiting your family to one child is a shame if the reason is to live in an overpriced area or because you insist on sending your kid to "just the right" private school and you can only afford to do that with one child... [/quote]

No what you said was "I think it's a shame that people limit themselves to one child so they can live in a small house or apartment in an over-priced area and afford private school..."  The fact that you're trying to walk it back now leads me to the conclusion that you're a disingenuous piece of shit.

Just keeping it real.   :lol: [/quote]

Like :)

[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics