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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]OP here. I actually never said I was out of the house as much as possible... I said I took effort to do so more often. I've been at home most hours of the day and night for several years, and wanted to get more time doing things for myself that were not related to work or family. That being said, it's still about [b]2 hours a day on most day[/b]s... so not really "out of the house as much as possible".[/quote] You know what most parents are doing after kids go to bed. Throwing in wash Folding wash cleaning up from dinner paying a bill RSVPing to birthday parties registering for fall sports updating the calendar with August dates (back to school, meet the teacher, etc) Cleaning a bathroom sorting through the mail preparing lunches for tomorrow <i could go no for hours> Only 2 hours a day? Could you imagine just shirking all your responsibilities for 'only" 2 hours a day.. walk outside, go for a run, then come home and contribute. [/quote] OP here. You've got it backwards. It's 2 hours a day out of the house... and the rest (not limited to... but definitely including) folding, washing, paying, playing, updating... plus actually being there for the kids and not just making it look like a long "to do" list of chores. [/quote] So you have the supply list for school and do all the shopping for that and clothes shopping for back to school and you cook dinner. I don't believe you. You started out saying you are spending as little time at home when "the wife" is there, realize you are not home to be a partner and then back peddling. Continue with therapy, own your issues and how you created a bad situation, good luck. [/quote] FFS his wife gets home late. He avoids her once she is home and kids in bed. Young kids. - signed happily married wife (you crazies make me feel like I have to sign this!) Serious projection issues [/quote]
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