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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you process, in a healthy way, men sitting there for hours staring at your body parts like you're subhuman? Do you have a mental game/trick that gives you a feeling of empowerment over this? Does it feel familiar, as a sexual abuse survivor? No judgment in this question, more purely psychological curiosity. [/quote]

It does seem like there is judgement in your question. I don't think about this. I just try to do my job and entertain.[/quote]

I'm sorry you sense judgment in the question. There really isn't. Most of the men watching you are not there to enjoy the artistry of your dancing, or even to appreciate you physically as a whole person, and they're not thinking about what an intelligent and nice person you are. They're reducing you to sexual body parts. Especially the sex addicts. A woman who chooses your line of work needs a defense against the sense that she's reduced to this. Some come to despise men, some self-medicate to block it out, some despise themselves. [b]I'm just surprised your therapist hasn't addressed this with you, and that you haven't given it more thought. I think it's important to work through for anyone, but especially if you have a history of sexual abuse, where someone has ignored who you are as a person and reduced you to body parts for their sexual use in a very traumatic way. [/b][/quote]

I agree. It seems so obvious to me that this life choice is not about empowerment or earning potential. [/quote]

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