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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This whole thread is insane. Mine wants me to SAH and raise our kids. Now I see what he'd think if I did. [/quote]

I think the trolls took over this thread a long time ago.  Don't listen to what these posters are saying, theres a very obvious agenda being pushed here, one that is held by a very small group, in reality.  Most people really respect and admire SAHMs.[/quote]

Of course, when the hypocritical DCUM harpies get exposed as hypocrites, they're the first to cry AGENDA! AGENDA! Most men respect and admire SAHMs, at least THOSE WHO RETURN TO WORK TO SUPPORT THEIR FUCKING FAMILIES. Too many women hide their laziness and refusal to contribute financially to their families in the guise of "staying home to raise children." You'd think women who actually contribute financially to their families would shame these pieces of shit into going back to work, but NO! They circle the wagons. Pathetic.

My girlfriend is going through this right now. Her sister in law is staying home, indefinitely, to raise children. She hasn't had a job since she married her husband five years ago. She says its because he moves a lot, though they've lived in the same town for four years now (he's a military officer) and because she hasn't found the "right fit." She's got a degree, though it's in something worthless like psychology. The reality is she refuses to take instruction, refuses to play well with others and simply refuses to work. She tries to make it look like she'll go to work "eventually," she wants to start some pie in the sky bullshit children's custom clothing business (LOL), but the reality is SHE DOESN'T WANT TO WORK. And of course GF's white knight brother is COMPLETELY OK with this! Unreal.

Truth fucking hurts, ladies. I will never date any woman who insists on staying at home beyond infant years. I don't give a shit if you're "raising my children," get your ass to fucking work and contribute financially to our family or fuck off.[/quote]

PP, I'd be surprised with your attitude that anyone, even someone who liked working out of the house, would like to date you period. You seem unstable. From what I've seen in the workforce, it's a matter of pride for people to be able to say they can afford to have someone at home similar to the way they talk about private schools. We even know Indian families who have a stay at home parent and hire quite a bit of outside help as well and prides themselves on being able to afford this. There are many ways to contribute to the family verses getting an outside job. Raising a family has costs as well as managing money and a house. OP's wife doesn't seem to be contributing enough to the family and household which is just as big a problem as not wanting to work outside the home. The same goes for men who have wives with equally challenging jobs outside the home but then don't contribute to the household equally. Do you get just as mad at these men as you do at moms wanting to stay home? How about the single moms with dads who are nowhere to be seen and only contribute with a court order?[/quote]

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