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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] We are from Nigeria and would be very upset if our daughter dated or married the typical American black. We want more for our kids.Many african immigrants would agree. I won't even consider living in an American black community. I alsn consider an African American someone who actually recently immigrated African. There are really no similarities, even features and skin tone is very different. American blacks have a very uniquely American appearance (and values). In my culture, Nigeria, focusing on your studied is expected. Getting a good job is expected.[/quote] Thank you for writing this. This is exactly what students have told me when I've questioned why the cafeteria is so segregated. I have a good friend from Uganda who's now a doctor; he shares the same sentiment. . So the "black community" clearly is NOT monolithic. And neither is the "white community." for that matter. As someone who's first generation, I have values from two different communities" and close ties to another country. [/quote] Most immigrants, regardless of race, feel superior to their American counterparts. Nothing new [/quote] Nigerian poster, are you planning on taking your family back to Nigeria or sending your kids to live with relatives when they are teens? I know other African immigrants who plan to do this because they want their kids to know their African roots and have similar values and not become too immersed in American culture and our values.[/quote]
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