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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Given that most (79%) of hetero marriages in the US involve a woman taking the man's last name this thread is a great example of the liberal bias on DCUM. The fact that most posters are offended that the woman is being asked to do what most women do and the man wants to follow what is the common norm in our country is pretty silly. [/quote]

It’s proof that women on this forum are educated, independent and don’t fall for patriarchal BS that you so desperately want to hang on to. I bet you tell women to smile more too.[/quote]

I am an educated liberal woman and I find this debate embarrassing. Keep your own name, that's fine, but the idea that most of America just isn't as smart and independent as you is so patronizing.[/quote]

Where did I make that claim? [/quote]

"It’s proof that women on this forum are educated, independent and don’t fall for patriarchal BS that you so desperately want to hang on to. I bet you tell women to smile more too."

By comparison the rest of women aren't as "educated, independent and fall for patriarchal BS". Thank god you're here to save all women from their terrible views since you know best.[/quote]

Oh in that case you’re right. I am smarter than you. You’re welcome.

PS Read who I was responding to before you write another brilliant response. [/quote]

Thanks for the sarcasm, definitely the sign of mature intelligence.

It can be so hard to track who is saying what over a 23 page thread. I'm just a stupid lady! Maybe we could use our last names to identify ourselves?[/quote]

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