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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love how some clown keeps harping that the issue is lack of sex yet never admits that’s driven by broken trust, reliability and respect.

It’s like saying you are shocked you have a cavity yet constantly eat krap and don’t brush your teeth. Is the real issue the cavity or your bad habits?

Delulu. [/quote]

And never addresses the role that communication plays in all of it.  If a spouse is unhappy, they need to say so.  Don’t assume the other person is a mind reader, however obvious it might be.  Have a serious sit-down discussion before the resentment builds to the point of no return.  Before one party has already fully checked out.  It doesn’t mean divorce isn’t 100% going to be prevent, but it will prevent the other feeling blindsided if it actually comes to that.

Oh, can’t/don’t wanna have a discussion with your spouse?  See above post.

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Don’t try to twist the characters.

H: we need to have sex 
W: I’m not feeling it, you have anger outbursts too much and don’t pull your weight in the house. 
H: so what, we need to have sex’s we’re married. 
W: I’m exhausted and hurt you aren’t engaged with the family or me or the house.
H: what? Look you left your shoes out! Right there you hypocrite! We need to have sex’s, it’s gods way. 
W: again, I don’t feel safe or attached to you when you’re a never around or involved in our lives. 
H: I work extremely hard for this family. I do it all for this family! I’m going to make a lot of ic one this year. You’re wrong.

(Walks off to fondle his iPhone)

Rinse and repeat. [/quote]

A woman's lack of sexual desire is not driven by the man not doing chores nor by the man having angry outbursts.  Plenty of couples fight but then have hot make up sex.  Plenty of woman have sex with their husbands and enjoy it even if he doesn't split the household chores 50/50.[/quote]

A woman’s lack of desire is absolutely, positively caused by the man having angry outbursts and other abandonment of the family. Wow. [/quote]

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