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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Interesting the DH said "up to you". Doesn't sound like he's eager to do it.[/quote]
I took that as “I’m fine with this but I’m sure OP will find some kind of issue so I need to leave it up to her.”[/quote]

Interesting. I took it as the husband doesn't really want to or he would have been more enthusiastic. He's also not one of the groomsmen, which is interesting. [/quote]

He is OFFICIATING. You don't think that's a bigger deal than being a groomsman?[/quote]

No. My husband still talks to his groomsmen. I still talk to my bridesmaids. Neither of us talk to our officiant.[/quote]

Did you pick a family member as a honor?

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[b]It's clearly not an "honor" in this case. The groom didn't say he wants to hang out with his brother.and spend together with his his super honored officiant before the wedding. [/b]

He said he doesn't want to pay for a room for him and his dudes to hang out in so he wants to use his brother's house.

Nothing about actually spending time with the brother. Just use his house to hang in.[/quote]

You speak with an awful lot of authority for someone who wasn't present for any of the conversations you are so "clear" on. [/quote]

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