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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know this thread is intended in jest and there are some great stories. But I am also shocked at how spineless some grown adults are! If visiting family is miserable or abusive in any way, STOP DOING IT! It's not mandatory. Many people eat Thanksgiving with only their nuclear family. You can also do that. Travel and multiple nights in an environment that makes you crazy is not neccessary. You are a grown up. Its OK to make your own tradition.[/quote]

Saying it from the perspective of someone who stepped away from the tradition to get away from the abuse: these kinds of people don’t leave you alone just because you’re “making your own tradition” or because you’re a grown up. In the fall, I can’t pickup the phone, check my texts or my emails without being berated by my elderly mother or being scolded by people she’s charged with doing her dirty work. A lot of people on her have made the calculation that a few days’ suffering is better than months of punishment.[/quote]

Hence pp’s comment on how many spineless people are on this forum. Why do you or the other martyrs on this forum care if your elderly mother’s friends scold you via text message/email for not partaking in a misery inducing event? [/quote]

Shoo, go back to cozy times with your happy family. This thread is for the rest of us.[/quote]

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