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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel sorry for those who never had kids,  I think they missed out on the importance stuff. I woukd it do it all over again,  maybe even more kids. [/quote]

People who choose not to have kids are making the best decision for themselves. Feeling sorry is such a strange reaction. I would only feel sad for someone who really wanted kids but for whatever reason it didn’t happen. [/quote]

Except they don't know what they are missing. They think they do, but they don't,  and can't  ever know.  I wouldn't have known before kids. I know what thet are missing now, and yeah, I feel pretty sorry for them.  I really do. [/quote]

Ok what are childless people missing that they haven’t considered in their decision-making process? What is this big secret about parenthood that is completely unknown until you become a parent?  [/quote]

What a dumb question. Like anything else, you cannot fully know what it's like until you experience.[/quote]

Ok, but if you’ve experienced it, certainly you can describe it, no? [/quote]

NP. Not really. My mom used to tell that I will never know how she felt about me until I have my own kids. She was 100% right.[/quote]

We can see that people are unable to describe having kids because apparently cow tongue is now being used as a comparison. Good grief. 
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Being a parent is transcendent. It's a love and a connection that  has no context that anyone could compare with anyone or anything else.  There's hormones,  biology, oxytocin, at play. Additionally  there's a socio-biological  system at play. It's not comparable to anything. [/quote]

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