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[quote=FBO][quote=Anonymous]
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If we had to go the family court route, I can easily proove I have always been the primary care giver of our children.  When they were little, I put my career on hold to be with them full time.  Now that they are older, my work schedule revolves around their schedule so I am the one who gets them to school, goes to parent teacher meetings, picks them up after school, and take them to their after school activities.  Even if my husband was as vendictive as you, I don't think he would push the custody issue because he wouldn't want the responsibility or the change in his lifestyle.  I have already checked out options with a divorce attorney and if I went that route there is stuff in husband's corner that I could strongly challenge/limit his access to the kids.

As others have indicated, our marriage isn't black and white and it is complicated why we remain married.  An affair for me would be an escape, a way to find the affection I do not get in my marriage.  If I found a man that could accept my situation for what it is and could be discrete, then I could easily see myself going forward with the affair.[/quote]

Please let me be clear - I really wasnt trying to pick at you or your statement.  I just posted one of the thoughts that popped in my head while reading your post and it actualy turned into a pretty interesting conversation!

I agree with you however that in some relationships, it is only something very small that is missing and if you can get that something elsewhere, and still maintain your personal responsibilities, then there are times when doing something like cheating can actually HELP the relationship.

Youre right.  The hard part is finding someone in a similar situation, or at least someone who can respect and understand the situation.

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