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Reply to "S/O How do you justify having an affair?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think some people justify the affair as being better than the alternative - a divorce that a spouse would not want, that would be uprooting/damaging to the children, and create lifestyle implications via needing to run two separate households. I do think some spouses know and choose to look the other way because of the above. It’s a terrible position to put your spouse in. [/quote] I had an affair after I realized that my husband had high functioning Asperger's. I thought he was an introvert who liked to drink. He caught me and was lilke, "just don't do it again." I told him that he couldn't fulfill my emotional needs even for conversation and he didn't deny it. We decided to have a don't ask don't tell policy after that, because he's a failure at daily life but the kids love him. That's the short version.[/quote]
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