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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This has been fun but is no longer rings true.

OP discovers affair on Wednesday and by Friday evening has the results of full STD panel along with appointments with two lawyers?

I might have believed the appointments with lawyers if it weren’t the end of the year but there’s no way I’m buying that OP made an appointment at a clinic, submitted to exam and has the results back in less than 24 hours.

OP, you moved the story along too quickly, next time slow it down and you’ll have us the whole way!

Merry Christmas! [/quote]

It was quite obvious to me from OP's first update that this was a tall tale, and I'm someone who wrote a long, thoughtful response in this thread before it.

OP discovered the infidelity and by the next morning had been to get STD tested, retained a lawyer, AND found and hired a PI? While having a demanding job and kids to deal with? Yeah, no. I called a plumber a few days ago and their first available appointment is in January.  OP has magic powers it seems.

Now there are drawers and suitcases full of sex supplies? Too much OP, too much. [/quote]

Why would someone make it up? They are just phone calls and walk in bloodwork. I don’t think she met the lawyers yet but plans to retain one of them eventually?[/quote]

Within 24 hours of finding about my DH's affair, I had STD results and he had appointment with a therapist to figure out what the hell was wrong with him.  For what its worth, the therapy has really helped him understand what drove him to take part in this affair, and he has made some positive adjustments in getting his life back on track.  If he hadn't agreed on the therapy, he would have been out the door that day.  It's a long road, but he is making progress on repairing the damage and I am somewhat hopeful.
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Can you recommend the therapist?[/quote]

Not the PP, but if you can afford it for the short term I would pay out of pocket for therapy. The best no longer accept insurance, and therapists on your approved providers lists will have long waits.[/quote]

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