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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi Tarot Reader, I am from page 9 21:24, page 10 21:08, and page 17 20:46. On page 17 21:36 you mentioned that you were writing down my info in your book and were preparing to travel. On page 18 you asked for a confirmation of continued interest, which I missed, my apologies! I am totally fine waiting until the next round but would still love a reading. We have moved a lot, I was fortunate to have a good community of other women in each place over the years. This time (and we have been here many years now), I have not been able to stick together a good community of friends who I can support and be supported by. I wonder if it's me. Is it something I am putting out or doing wrong? I had a great group of lovely women when we first moved here. They dropped me though, and when I asked one person why, she could not or would not say why. It definitely hurt and has been hard to let go of. I would like to let go of that pain and confusion. Thank you for your insights! [/quote] Hello! First and foremost, it is NOT you. I heard “Queen Bee”. I am feeling like these are women who have hive mentality and there may be a ring leader who decided you did something that bothered them and they started to figuring out a way to work you out of the group. It has absolutely nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. These are the type of women who are stuck in their high school years and do not change. You seem to be more mature and independent. You march to the beat of your own drum. People like this struggle in a hive society, especially if you are in the DMV. I believe taking some creative classes may help you to open up some new pathways to people. You may need to step outside of your comfort zone to find the women you are searching for. I feel even though you felt they were a great group of women, you may not have had much in common with them besides socializing. You need to find people who genuinely share your interests beyond what is trendy and the “it” thing to do. Do not allow these women to have any power over you. They acted childishly and they cared so little they couldn’t even put on their big girl panties to tell you what happened. You must let go of them and what was in order to be present and allow new people to come in. Have some patience. There is hope, but you need to see beyond this group because they were not meant to be. I am sorry they hurt you and it sucks that they did, but you will come out on top! There is always something to be learned from every experience we have and you will soon enough find the key you are looking for. The cards that represent your current energy are the Ace of Wands reversed and the 4 of Pentacles. Holding onto this hurt is holding you back and not allowing for new situations that are more fulfilling to come in. Sometimes we subconsciously block new people out because of the hurt we experienced prior. Letting go of the old situation will help you. The cards that represent the energy of the old group is The Sun in reverse and the King of Wands in reverse. This says to me that it was not a good fit and that you are more likely than not more adventurous than the rest of them. You seem to be someone who pursues their interests based on what you want and like versus what everyone else wants and likes. This group was not going to help you find people who are of the same mind. The cards that represent what you need to know are the Page of Wands and the Hanged Man. It’s time to see this from another perspective. You are a creative, unique individual and you are in a time that you can forge your own path and try out new things. Take this time to perhaps get to know individuals rather than an entire group. Your community doesn’t always have to be a group of friends where everyone knows each other. It can be a group of individuals that you curated to help you grow as a person just as much as you help them…and they don’t all have to be connected. The cards that represent what to work on are the King of Cups in reverse and the Knight of Swords. I do feel there may be some impulsivity to you with the Knight. This could be one of the issues that they had. So perhaps learning to curb your impulses could provide useful going forward…not just in regards to people, but situations as well. I feel you also need to work on not allowing other people to bring you down and cause you to think something is wrong with you. You must look at the whole picture and see that this is their issue and not yours…especially if there was no reason given. The cards that represent the outcome are the High Priestess and the 5 of Pentacles in reverse. Listen to your inner voice. If you do this work and follow your intuition without rationalizing away red flags, you will be on the right path. It’s a path that will help you find the community you are looking for where you feel seen and heard. Where you won’t be left out in the cold and the people you choose to bless with your energy are willing to reciprocate. Have patience, you will find them![/quote] I am remiss and overdue in expressing my gratitude to you for taking the time to feel this and write this. You are a very clear writer and communicator, thank you. Just this weekend I have been able to read your words and really think about them rather than just skim, because of work-related distraction and overwhelm during the week. I will work on letting it go. I don't know the mechanics of doing that but I will try. Again, thank you so much.[/quote]
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