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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What did you talk about?  
Like you were going to be DINKs and travel the world, and now she wants a house in the suburbs and kids?  Or you were going to get a house in the suburbs and have kids, but now she also wants to SAH with them for a couple of years?  [/quote]

OP here. The issue is the materialistic view that had suddenly come out.

Before we got engaged, we went to a friends house who had recently got engaged. My gf made a snide remark about how small the ring is and that she needs one at least double that size. I bought her a 1.5 carat and she has made comments that it could be bigger.

We had always planned to get married and buy a SFH to eventually raise kids in. We had talked about what we want in a home and a little on purchase price. Now the houses we talked about are no longer good enough and she wants a bigger, more expensive home. She grew up in a huge house and expects that lifestyle for her kids. She has said, without even asking, that we can use the money I saved for many years for a down payment. I’m more frugal and would not be willing to pay such a high amount for a home. It’s our money but I make the majority of our income.

We had talked about getting married and waiting 1-2 years and then having kids. She has since decided we should start trying right after we have her married. She has said that she wants to stay home since I make more money than she anyway.

We have had many long talks about these above issues and we were always on the same page. Now she has become a different person after getting engaged.

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Get out now OP. She sounds awful but typical of many women who grew up wealthy. She will expect you to work hard while she stays home and you fund her expensive life style. Many men are fine with that and want a SAHM trophy wife.  If that’s not you, you need to end it now or live a life of always funding your wife to keep up with the Jones. Signed. A female. [/quote]

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