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[quote=Anonymous]Just read whole thread. What an interesting fallout. It ultimately sounds like a mismatch. Honestly I identify heavily with exgf and my DH is very frugal, verging on cheap. We are happy married 7+ years with a child and together 12+. I like some nice things and definitely can come off as spendy especially according to my DH’s standards. I don’t think any of the things the the exgf is mentioning are in and of themselves are an issue but they don’t seem particularly compatible. Still lots of room for perspective to be formed because this is afterall an online forum, all info is biased and shared through one narrative, but it sounds like both parties dodged their version of a bullet. I feel for you both but probably a little more for the exgf. In some ways op, she was behaving in a way you said you had no problem with… being supported, having you pay for lifestyle (less groceries). You also don’t sound like someone who particularly cares for “things” yet the no gifting, less Christmas wine and brownies, bothered you? It doesn’t all flush out to me and to be honest you don’t sound entirely reasonable and seem overly critical of your exgf, but then again it’s my opinion and ultimately there seems to be a comparability issue. [/quote]

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