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[quote=Anonymous]Here's my situation:

Married 15 yrs, sexless for 4 years, 6-18 month stretches sexless before that.  Very active before kids, started going south once we started trying.  Even though DW doesn't enjoy PIV (which is fine - happy to do other things) she usually pushed for that so it would be over faster.  The last time was the worst experience of my life - very clear she just wanted it over with.

I have tried to support her career journey, including SAH and PT when she wanted it.  I do at least half of housework and cooking and almost all work related to yard and cars.  Also pick up kids and help them with their HW since I work from home these days.  I have tried most of the "romance" suggestions on this thread at one time or another except vacation since she doesn't enjoy travel.

We have talked about it and she basically says she is no longer interested.  She has no friends, so I have thought about telling her sister that we are having problems.  (She doesn't want to go to counseling or therapy.)

I am under consideration for a project where I would travel to the same location a few days each week.  If that happens, I am planning to tell her that I am not planning to be celibate while I am there.  I think she will then file for divorce...
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