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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men need sex to feel emotionally connected to their wives and women need emotional connection to want sex with their husbands. We can argue until we’re blue in the face about whether one should meet the other’s needs when his or her own needs aren’t being met, but that’s the way it is. Somebody has to go first.[/quote] If that’s accurate (and I don’t believe it is but for the sake of the discussion) than the person who is expecting to have their “needs met” by compelling someone else into a potentially painful and unpleasurable act can absolutely go first. Someone who sees sex with their spouse as a “need to be met” or an entitlement of marriage is very likely not going to realize that and doesn’t care about their spouses enjoyment anyway.[/quote]
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