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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anyone else shocked by the laziness of SAHMs in this thread citing the inability to work 40 hours a week and lack of leisure time? Isn’t this how the working world functions? [/quote]

I suspect that many of the SAHMs here couldn’t hack it in the real world and make these excuses to continue to live off their husbands.[/quote]

Well, now that is an original take!!

I am sure that you are also amazed that these losers SAHMs are able to marry alpha high earning husbands who can fund their lifestyles?  Do you wonder why the world is so unfair or why the laziest people live such pampered lives?

Do you know why many working women in their late 30s, 40s, 50s and they are single, but people who you consider essentially incompetent have husbands, have kids, and don't have to earn a single cent? Do you wonder what you are missing in your wonderful analysis? Could it be that these SAHMs could hack life, marriage, kids far better than hacking some low paying job?[/quote]

This is hilarious…so the bottom line is that you think a man is a plan. You denigrate women who work but they have a way better work ethic than someone like you who is leech. Any woman can marry and have children…it’s no big deal. Having the gumption to build a professional career is way more impressive. By the way, it is quite clear that you PP have no writing ability and probably aren’t very well-educated. So you’re very defensive about your SAHM “hack”. [/quote]

No one is defensive about being a SAHM. SAHMs are attacked on DCUM precisely because they are well educated and rich.  Being a SAHM in DCUM is a status signal. You do understand that this is a bloody expensive place and most people are working to pay bills?

As far as kids are concerned, I don't know about most people but for my DH and I, having kids was the biggest blessing of our lives.  For me, my kids are a great example of superior nature and nurture.  I sometime wonder if I had kids who had average intellect, plain looks and annoying temperament, would I have stayed at home? Would I have breastfed them as long as I did? I know for sure if they were like many other children who I see in their school  ...heck I would have fed them rice cereal at birth so that I could leave them with a care giver and gone back to work without a pang of guilt.

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