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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP it is not difficult to understand, you are being obtuse. What other people buy or do not buy, afford or do not afford, is not your business.  I know if you had it your way, a large house would be illegal, or somehow outlawed, but that is not possible, so you are going to have to suck it up and get over your feelings about what other people have or do not have, including yourself.  You can feign ignorance for the rest of your life, but it is not helping you, clearly. [/quote]

The audacity for someone to say that OP bad life choices because she lives in a very large home. Makes no sense whatsoever.

Am I to understand following this logic that everyone who lives poorly in a 1 BR with 5 kids is out here with a heart of gold and trying to save the planet??

Bwahhahahahah

Honestly some of you make absolutely no sense and some real odd correlations between material things and someone's worth and value. What someone can or can't afford - or what they choose to spend their money on may say something about them - but it doesn't tell you whether they are indeed a "good" or "bad" person or whether they are worthy of friendship. WOW.[/quote]

Some of you seem to lack common sense and don't realize what hypocrites you are.  You are demeaning people for admitting that OPs choice would make them think twice about pursuing a friendship with her.  They didn't say they'd be rude to her or protest in her front yard, they just said they wouldn't pursue a relationship with her.   You undoubtedly throughout your lives have made choices about who to befriend based on the behavior of people you happen to meet.  A 15k foot house is exceptional.  To choose to live in a house like that does say something about your values.  I don't think PPs who pointed this out were saying OP was "good" or "bad".  More like thoughtless or maybe ignorant.  Is that a negative thing to say about someone?  Yes, it is. Sometimes we meet another person and don't like something about them and that's life.  How about you stop pretending you don't do the exact. same. thing.  Maybe not over a 15k house, but over something that surely someone else might find trivial.

Get over yourselves.[/quote]

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