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NP here. The problem is that the complaint that "My husband doesn't do enough" is "fat and/or lazy" is often a dodge done by women who just plain don't want to have sex with their husbands anymore. They need to offer some excuse, and those are usually the excuses. The husband starts to do more around the house -- still no sex, now it's something else. If lack of effort around the house or being overweight really is the problem, ladies, give your DH some hard targets to hit (goal weight, chores that must get done, etc.), with a specific reward offered if he hits those targets (e.g. enthusiastic sex at least twice a week) and then watch how quickly he trims down and starts doing more around the house. Transactions like that, men can do. [/quote]

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I'm honestly in total shock that anyone would write such a thing. Here's a concept: What about you try to[b] make her WANT to have sex with you[/b], rather than force her to commit to her minimum terms (!) and then hold her to the contract?[/quote]

You can't [b]make[/b] anyone [b]want[/b] to do [b]anything[/b].  Either she wants you or she doesn't.  Even when I resent the hell out of my DW for something, all she has to do is look at me the right way and I'm ready to go.  However, as has been explained here ad nauseum,[b] it doesn't work that way for women. [/b] And we just suffered through pages and pages of explanations why women with small children just don't want sex and we, as husbands, should just accept it for what it is. [/quote]

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