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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah, she shouldn't do it.

I paid off my exh's law/MBA loans early in our marriage. That money would have come in handy later.[/quote]

The fact that this debt didn’t come up before the marriage is a major concern.

I’d be concerned that he is planning an exit once the debt is gone. If he was really committed and not just wanting a bailout and a fancy party, why the deception?

Shame isn’t enough to explain it. Most people coming out of expensive graduate programs have at least some student loan debt.[/quote]

My ex did, so you are not being unrealistic BUT I was aware of the debt going in. This scenario has a LOT of red flags. I also wish I had not spent down my premarital assets and deferred retirement savings. When debt was all but gone, ex had a workplace based affair and left. The only part I could have controlled was not prioritizing his debt over my own financial well being. He ended up being fairly wealthy and stayed with AP. I feel as though I was used. Cautionary tale. [/quote]

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