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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Using the word prude makes someone a potty mouth? You've just proven her point, Ms Prudy. You are also redefining the discussion. OP referenced a five year old, within the rules at her pool. You fabricated pools that have rules for three year olds and then insisted that a three year olds need to be supervised did not trump your screwed up daughter's "need" to be comfortable. Btw, my daughter is not comfortable in communal changing rooms. She is particularly uncomfortable around middle age women. Perhaps I should demand that you change elsewhere? After all, it's all about the ten year old's comfort isn't it? I thought that a reasonable parent would tell her to suck it up, but I guess I need to demand special treatment like you instead. It was pointed out that you are nuts. You have no right to dictate what mothers do with their young children especially when it involves them being unsupervised. If you have a problem with the rules then you need to go elsewhere. End of story.[/quote] Your post is completely off base as to me: I'm talking to the lady who told someone to f-themselves at least 2x. I am not the poster about the 3 year old limit. I do have a right to dictate what moms do with their kids if they aren't following the rules posted and to be applied to all. I'll bring it up to that mom and management every time I see it. I'll also address her directly. It is not just about the girl's comfort. It is about the rules and why they are there and how they are for everyone. [/quote] If you addressed me I would tell you to mind your own business. If you got management, I would tell them they need to provide someone to assist that has had a criminal and other background check and child abuse check as well as cameras being in the room. If there are stalls, you go in the stalls. Problem solved. No one except young kids should be changing in the open but as a mom to a boy, his safety comes first. Obviously you do not have young kids or boys or you are one of those hands off parents whose kid is the one running wild and you ignore it till it bothers you. What you are saying is you will harass someone because they are not doing it your way. I would call security or the police on you without thinking twice. So, today, you expect us to just take our child out soaking wet into a freezing car and drive home to change him? Really, if you do, you lack pure common sense. Girls will not care in less you care. You are not talking about a 15 year old. You are talking about 3-4-5-6-7 year old boys who need supervision. The irony is if you had a child in the dressing room alone, you'd probably be complaining about where are the child's parents and why aren't they supervising them.[/quote] And if I were management, I would ban your crazy ass. [/quote] The management would ban you. They made a second class for my son as he was first on the waitlist. I doubt they will be banning us when they are so nice and welcoming. [/quote] Wait, you think they made a second class for just him? There had to be enough interest, several we're wait listed and a new class was formed. You cray cray.[/quote] they moved one child from the first class and there are two kids in the class. They only allow 4-5 kids per class and generally only hold one class per skill level. My son did great with them in the fall and they were very supportive of us coming back. [/quote]
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