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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The secret to my amazing marriage is my rampant libido. DH loves that. More than anything else I bring to the relationship - a clean house, a pay check, well raised kids, a fit body, and attractive face, my high educational qualification, my cooking abilities, my social acumen.   All of this is nice to have but pales in comparison to my sexual enthusiasm and insatiable appetite for sex with him.   It is what it is. Ladies, you can accept it or keep wondering why your DH and your relationship is at an impasse.  Men are not really that complicated.   Oh, and I know I will be flamed now by the women.[/quote]

+1 Another woman here who totally agrees.[/quote]

Another woman here, and I don't see anything flameworthy about what you're saying.  You're saying your healthy libido is at least partially responsible for your healthy marriage.  Yay!  That's far from what OP (and his possibly sockpuppeting friend) is saying, which is that if a woman isn't into sex she deserves to be left, and it's all her fault.  I don't think you're saying that.  What if your sex drive falls off a cliff with menopause?  Do you expect your husband to stay with you and help you work through it?  OR do you think he should just leave you and the kids?[/quote]

NP here:  I think it is sad and there is often no one to blame, but at a certain point incompatible needs are, well, incompatible.  When a marriage becomes sexless or near-sexless and one of the spouses needs sex, the list of available options to manage that issue becomes very short, very fast.  [/quote]

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