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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is sad that women want to withhold/not have sex when things are not going well in their marriage. Whereas  sex is the glue that makes marriages resilient. All marriages will have issues, but when you are having sex, you have more reasons to want to work on it.  Having a great sex life makes the man want to fix (or tolerate) whatever the problem in the marriage is.   Withhold that and the man is emotionally checked out.

I also feel that sex has become a bargaining chip for many women because they do not actually enjoy having sex. See a dr if your libido has taken a dive, because it could be a medical reason.

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Yes, there very often IS a medical reason.  But sometimes there's nothing you can do about that medical reason.  If you're a woman of childbearing age and your testosterone has taken a dive, your doctor isn't going to prescribe testosterone.  So then you're left trying to make up for your lack of testosterone.  And hopefully, your DH will be more understanding than this jerk.
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