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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]White M here, age 37, married to a White F. White M/Asian F couples are accepted these days, almost required. I mean, if I (White M) were to divorce my wife (also White), I'd have to marry an Asian woman or move out of the county. Maybe Fairfax would take me back, or I'd just migrate up north on Route 15 to Frederick. There is White privilege out there. Claiming that Blacks should just "get over it" in the face of getting hassled for "Driving while Black/Brown," "Shopping while Black/Brown," and, let's face it, "Presidenting While Black" ... is disingenious at best. Is it better than 1950 and the days of Bull mutherfarking Connor? You bet your sweet non-color-specific ass it is. Still isn't fully cured though. But a fat lot of good it does to a White/Asian who does lose out on a job, promotion, etc., due to affirmative action that (quite often) favors the Jack and Jill class of Black and/or White women. The way it seems to me, it's like a game of craps, where there's 100 pairs of dice out there that could be used. Maybe 60-70 of the dice are loaded against Blacks but 30-40 are loaded against Whites. (Reasonable people can quibble on the percentages.) One day, a Black guy gets the job "because we need some Blacks on staff." Another day, a Black guy doesn't get a second look for some reason that wouldn't disqualify a White guy (e.g. asking about telecommuting, salary requests, etc.) Throw into the mix that people -- including my sainted fat ass -- do this subconsciously. [/quote] Very amusing![/quote]
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