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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the "old sperm autism" theory is a bit overblown, especially compared to geriatric pregnancy and egg viability concerns which get worse at 35 for women.

Women have their preferences e.g., 6 figures, 6" doodad etc... but when men express preference it's the end of the world.[/quote]

The 6-6-6 thing is a lie made up by red pilled incels who have never actually spoken to a woman.

Time and again, women have explained what they want, but men would rather listen to other men about women's preferences. [/quote]

To be fair, I think the “men want younger women for fertility” thing is also way overblown.

I mean, I’ve known men who didn’t know what labia were called or didn’t know that women can pee with tampons in. Yet these men are also experts in female fertility? I’m not buying it.

I also think most men don’t even care all that much about having their own kids. Most seem to do it because it’s expected, but I’ve only met maybe 2 men who REALLY wanted kids. The rest just sort of took them or left them. [/quote]

Of course his “want kids” claim is simply to justify needing access to much younger body. He failed to commit to anyone in 20-30s when he was in that age group . Was parting, drinking and sleeping around with 20 yo “wh…res”. Now he wants a 27 yo “old virgin” to marry. Classic redpill toxic misogynist [/quote]
Wonder how many age appropriate women he strung along and wouldn’t commit to in his 20s/early 30s. But now that he’s 40, he’s ready to settle down!! No old broads please!![/quote]

As a man I agree that it’s much better to date within your own age bracket and not to pursue younger women (who were in grade school when these men were in college). But I do have to point out that some of the salaries some women are describing as their minimums here are only achieved in the 40s and 50s… so if these 20- and 30-something women don’t want to live in what’s been described as “poverty” maybe their best option is a big law partner who spent his 30s grinding at work?

Or we could stop placing such a premium on being in the top 5% of earners and more value on personality and other life goals…[/quote]

I have to think the women demanding high salaries are outliers that are over represented here and the internet at large. When I was in my 20s I and most of my friends dated men who were around our same age (maybe plus one or two years) and in a similar position in life. I did not know many women who were holding out for 666 or whatever, [b]but I DID see plenty of examples of men wasting womens prime reproductive years and then not marrying them[/b].

Also, I have been around the military and I find that most military men in their 20s don't have an issue finding a life. For plenty of women, they find it a good deal, especially if the woman is from an economically disadvantaged area around a military base. If this man is a he described, he could easily have married in his 20s. [/quote]

Take some accountability. They wasted their own "primes" by not being decisive. You all go on and one about how women aren't bang maids or incubators and then also come out with this "prime reproductive years" crap. Which is it? Are you an empowered agent or not? Are you more than a babymaker or not?

Nobody owes you marriage. If that is what you're looking for, [i]be decisive[/i] and go find it. Or stay single. Just spare us the constant moaning about your inability to take accountability and proactively build the life you want.[/quote]

Listen - if women he dated in his 20s need to take responsibility for dating him, then he should take responsibility for not being able to get hitched to anyone within 27-32 yo age range on time. 
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