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Reply to "Partner and I can't agree on a surname after marriage and now I'm wondering if marrying him is even worth it."
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[quote=Anonymous]I kept my last name mostly out of laziness but the idea of being called by a different name felt odd. That being said, it is more efficient to have same last name for whole family. It’s up to you to choose which one. In my culture traditionally women kept their last name (often their dad’s first name) or took husband’s first name until recently when they started following westernized trend of using husband’s last name. As women are given their dad’s name not mom’s name, husband wanting them to take his last name isn’t patriarchal but more like ownership. [/quote]
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