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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What type of 27 year old man doesn’t handle his business and take care of his family. Pathetic.

OP is doing the right thing to support the baby mama.[/quote]

Oh sure. Handle his business then get divorced. Paying support is not the worst outcome for the kid. OP is choosing purported grandchild over actual son. That betrayal will not be forgotten. No matter if the alleged parents marry and are happy (which I doubt). The betrayal and lie about support no matter what will be there.

OP apparently scoped no matter what to include early stage abortion, marriage, co-parenting.  Not lying about paternity, mentally questionable baby mama, no desire by son to spend life with her. [/quote]

OP here

Are you actually OK, did you have a stroke or something?

I literally could not read this and make sense of whatever you were saying.

I just spoke to my son for like 45 mins. He was waiting for a therapy session at 2:30pm

He is 100% not OK but he also just got smacked in the back of the head by a timber beam 7 days ago

He thought he was looking at a 1st term then a 2nd term then a 7 month and then she went into labor and the baby was probably close to full term

All in 5 days

That's why his brother is flying in internationally this weekend.

And yes, that's why we give them allowances, exactly so they can do things like this[/quote]

You said you told him you would support him no matter what. At least that's what you posted.

But apparently the scope of "no matter what" didn't include your not getting a grandparent experience out of it.

"No matter what" means putting your son first.  Supporting what he wants. 
Not deciding you are "team baby." 
[/quote]

OP here

I am not team anything right now except I do have money

And I have no life. I can put money towards things.

I told my son when i talked to him today that I was putting money towards his girlfriend and the baby. I told him that she initially didn't put our last name on the baby's birth certificate but that before she left the hospital she probably should. It's the difference in this area between say, "Brown" or "Smith" and the last name of a cousin who owns a major car dealership where everyone knows the name.

She should use the name. Why not ???

I'm not "team baby" except for, as I told my son today, he has all the protections ... and this baby doesn't have any. This baby didn't do anything wrong, so while my son (my son) is figuring his stuff out ... babies don't wait, they aren't in limbo, they need everything, so I can do that.

I texted my ex last night "WHAT EXACTLY IS ALL THE MONEY FOR"

He is somehow in an episode of Game of Thrones or something he needs to protect his hoard OR SOMETHING

Against this girl in her 20s and her newborn

like I hate him sometimes [/quote]

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