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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][twitter][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you are a great mother
I would be very concerned about the gf who didn’t take care of this earlier [/quote]

OP here

from what I understand from my son she was on birth control pills ... not hormonal birth control

While his dad and I were both in grad school in boston, I terminated an unplanned pregnancy in late 1994 at the same Brookline (Boston) clinic where someone came in with guns a few weeks later and started shooting up the place. I visually remembered some of the staffers who were killed. We'd had to wade through a bunch of protesters outside who kept grabbing at our sleeves and said horrible things like

"You'll go to to hell for killing your baby"

"Murderers"

Just WTF where even are those people today? They were all old people

So I'm just saying I've done some things.

Inside, it was a normal surgical procedure. People were very kind. But they had to be behind security doors. No one wanted to be there.

NO one WANTS to be there

I'm still not in hell. I love my adult children and will support them in any ways they need.

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That’s wild, OP.  I also had an abortion a little earlier than you, in late fall of 1993, at the same clinic.  I was devastated a year later when it was attacked.   I also had my pregnancy confirmation and dating and had gotten birth control previously at the Planned Pregnancy on Beacon Street and I vividly remember the receptionist there who was murdered.  She was only 25.

You are absolutely doing the right thing by supporting your grandson’s mother and providing help for the baby.  You raised your son…he will come around.  This is hard because it’s all a crazy shock and it’s all out of his control.  But he will step up.  Give it time.  [/quote]

I flew to New York to get a 6 week abortion in 1972. It was legal there. If that had not been an option I would have kil#ed myself. I can understand someone not wanting to be a parent no matter what and I don't think only women can feel that way.

Team Son. He can choose too. Whatever. But he can choose. 
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My mom did this in 1972 also. She flew to NY from Illinois.

My dad was telling her if she had the 5th baby he would tell everyone it was with her "boyfriend in Chicago" where she went to take voice lessons. (Spoiler: Her voice teacher was gay.)

She did get that termination, now my mom is in her late 80s[/quote]

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