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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please find out how generous he was with his first wife -- the men I know in these situations SCREWED them over (and will screw you over) --  no alimony, minimal child support, no future earnings, just 50/50 of the estate (which yes was huge, but he has all the earning power and she gave up all the earning power to support him and raise their kids).

I am so sad for the young innocent women in these situations -- they are swept off their feet by money (which actually isn't that much for a 50 year old!) and attention (while they ignore their children -- just like they'll ignore their next set of children). If you REALLY want to know the truth, find out about the ex-wife. My guess would be that he groomed her too (she was probably much younger than him as well).[/quote]

That’s so true! This is what my exH did - I got a 50/50 settlement but he avoided paying for college, shifted all logistical and financial burden of launching our SN child into adulthood to me. He also was very aggressive during divorce, blackmailing me and his former MiL my mom. 
I’m fine financially but nowhere near his NW and earning capacity. He surely dates a 20 years younger woman. 
I date and can see through these types now right away. I once found an ex wife of a Big4 managing director in a trailer park in Arizona, selling Tshirts on Etsy. Sadly to her she was a former yoga instructor and couldn’t find a job where they lived post divorce. He was living in a 4 level penthouse in a with private elevator (but at least he took the kids under his wing - he lived in the penthouse with failure to launch adult son). 
These large age and income gap marriages can end up very tragic for the woman

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