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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He been divorced for eight years (been together 1.5), he has two kids who are 17 & 14, and he does want kids with me.[/quote]

PLEASE live your own life!!! You are young, beautiful, and have a wonderful future ahead of you!

I see this happen through soooo many of my friends. Their husbands of 20+ years (now 45-55) leave, cheat, or divorce after their wives have raised the children (there is always children) and now have 25-30 year old girlfriends to avoid responsibility. They want to escape their life, waste money, and have fun. Their girlfriends love the "big" spenders who seem "sooo" successful. BUT the truth is that the old geezer's fortunes are HALF of what they would have been if you married a 30 year old man and had 20 years of youthful memories buying a first house, going on camping trips, doing everything for the first time (that he did with his wife -- and you didn't get to do). AND, he is not nearly as successful as he would have been in life if he didn't figure out how to make his marriage work -- he has narcissistic tendencies and wants to do what he wants to do -- he is going to treat you the exact same way. PLUS he is lying if he is not taking a blue pill (or will need to soon!).

10 years older, no kids, first marriage is NOT the same thing as the above. You have your entire future ahead of you and he is grooming you. You will miss out on the things he got, and the kids will hate you.[/quote]

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