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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi everyone. Our mixed-race DC is looking at schools for next year (through virtual open houses and zoom discussions with administrators). One of those schools is NCS/STA (I'd rather not do anything to reveal who our family is). We have read with deep shock the @blackatsta, @blackatncs, @asianatsta and other accounts in the DC schools. They are horrifying--racist comments by students and teachers, race-based bullying, race-based exclusion, extreme bullying (telling kids to kill themselves, relentlessly), etc. Worst of all--kids of color who just seem deeply and unfairly unhappy. The schools have of course acknowledged these accounts and have issued statements and outlined their plans to do to address these issues. So we have the "official" line from the schools. What we'd really like to ask and have answers to though are not things we feel like we can get from the schools and those "official" statements and plans. We know that this forum is imperfect, too, and we're doing our best to find families that attend there. We only know a couple, as we've only lived here a couple of years. So we hope that some here are willing to engage. How deep and ingrained are these issues of racism? Is there even a chance that these issues will be meaningfully addressed by new administrators? Or are these deep problems that would take decades to root out? Deep problems that will potentially be perpetuated by sets of moneyed groups with long ties to the school who not only aren't really committed to change, but who are also part of the problem (this last question comes from something one of the few families we know there said about a subset of very wealthy legacies at this school who have no commitment to change, and often are part of the problem)? Again, we've heard the speeches. We've read the plans. Our DC has expressed a desire for single-sex, and DC is a competitive applicant (please, this is not an invitation to tell us to "get in first." You can't get answers about these sorts of things in the very short time you get to decide post-admission, and as parents of a child of color, we owe DC as much due diligence as we can--which is made even harder by the pandemic). We would deeply appreciate the perspective of anyone from these schools who is willing to talk about what's REALLY going on there on these issues. [/quote] With 50k tuition and above, how can any of these schools not be racist? In this country, race is the strongest determining factor of income. [/quote] There is A LOT of financial aid handed out. It is not 50k+ for everyone.[/quote] Not quite enough financial aid being dispersed to equalize the racial playing field[/quote]
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