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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] Wrong. OP reported that after they told the other spouse. Told them without any regard for them.

When OP told the other spouse, OP did not care whether they were going to hurt another innocent person.[/quote]

I must have missed where OP said she had no regard for them - or maybe you are just [b]making up your own story like a psycho??[/b]

OP likely agonized over telling the other betrayed spouse precisely because she knows exactly how painful the information is - since she had to deal with it herself - and dreaded being the bearer of bad news. But that’s all OP was - a truth sharer who was watching out for another person because she knows the pain will be worse the longer the other person is kept in the dark. OP restored agency to the other spouse. Any damage or resulting divorce is ENTIRELY the fault of the cheaters.[/quote]

Seriously, are you okay, PP? You seem strangely invented, and all your argue wants (I’d like to call it discussion, but it’s not)  contain personalized, mental health related slurs like this one. You’ve also used delusional, I think crazy, and certainly referred to women who stay as weak.

With that, I just want to point out that it takes[b] a hell of a lot of backbone to stick by someone who hurts you to the core[/b], and I would never refer to someone who stays as weak. To me, that’s the exact realization of the marriage vows. Humans aren't perfect, and life is a long time.

The fact that you can see no nuance in any situation, and are so rigid that you lash out with name calling and slurs to defend your point  makes me sad for you. Life is a bigger place than you seem to want know or understand. “But for the grace…”.[/quote]
Nah, you just didn't want to get a job. [/quote]

Because Beyoncé and HRC didn’t have jobs? You think every woman who stays is a SAH? [/quote]
So you didn't get a job, and stayed and use beyonce and hilary to prop up your position? Whatever helps you sleep at night I guess. [/quote]

Wtf is with you, your assumptions and your personal attacks? Does it actually serve you well in life?

We’ll, I’ve been employed since 14, and I’m well over triple that, but thanks to you and your judgement for Coming out. People can not have your personal opinion on life, do you know that?

I guess right back at your “whatever lets you sleep at night” but I don’t think I could being such a hateful, spiteful, and rigid person.  [/quote]
Now who's doing the personal attacks  :lol:  :lol:  :lol: Can dish it out but can't take it? Go back to your cheating husbands bed, I'm sure it's already warm from someone else. [/quote]

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