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[quote=Anonymous]I haven’t read the comments but I don’t think boomer parents realize that is millennial parents are like borderline suicidally overwhelmed. We can’t afford what they could and need to work bananas hours with forced corporate personas to hold down jobs where we make more than they ever did but can afford much less and where everyone is at a full sprint competition wise at all times. On top of that we are expected to raise kids, some of whom have sn, with unwavering patience, full attention and empathy. This is correct but hard. On top of that, we can’t afford much help or really to even go out to eat much (my parents went out whenever they wanted) or to have our own time bc the cost of everything is nuts. We live in houses that are way smaller than we dreamed or further away. We aren’t even supposed to have a glass of wine any more in the 1 hour we have free before we pass out in the evening. We are at capacity. I once asked my mil if they could come later in the day on xmas eve as it was my first day off in ages and I needed a ‘mental health reset’ and she teased me and was offended about the mental health part. It’s not a joke though - we are all on ssris and half of us fall asleep fantasizing about running away forever. I have my ILs this weekend after a week of insane work and I absolutely hate it. It’s like a straw that broke the camels back and yesterday I escaped for 30 mins and cried in the car. They are totally oblivious to my life - it’s like if someone from the west wing was hosting the mom from everyone loves Raymond. 
So op - it’s prob not about you, although the criticism if it’s not poking fun sounds like resentment. Is it possible that you are oblivious to their stressors? Call and say are you ok. Really listen to the answer. And then say - it feels like we’re a burden: I don’t want to feel like that and I don’t want you to feel overwhelmed. I want you to be able to talk to me and I want to help and not be yet another obligation. Let’s figure this out [/quote]

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