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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Gotta love all the moms whose kids get dropped from a friend group and place blame on all the other kids and not look at their own child.  And they throw out queen b and mean girls to rationalize that your kid is “so innocent” but maybe your kid did some things or are nothing like the rest of the group. That the other moms forced the friendship and your kid had fake friends for years.  And now they are sick of mom engineered friend-based groups and moving on.

My youngest is high maintenance. I knew once Girl Scouts  and group activities would start falling off, her friendships would too. It sucked but I am not an idiot to know that my daughter isn’t the coolest to hang out with. She is immature, likes playing kid games, and is kinda loud. Most of the other girls stayed friends. My daughter eventually found her tribe and all was well. I would never ever ever place blame on other children and name call them like some of you nasty moms here. And I certainly wouldn’t let my daughter bad mouth anyone. I made her rise above. She is even friendly with 2 of them again now that they are in 8th grade and she has matured more to their level.

The throwing around bully, mean girls, and queen b on friendships that die once they can do their own things is embarrassing. Over-involved moms are the toxic ones.  [/quote]

Your parenting style is not one I would hold up as some exemplary style. Nor is your post one that demonstrates your ability to "rise above." I literally laughed when read that, given how judgy, smug, and bit---y your post is.[/quote]

Yikes, you laughed when the PP asked her daughter to rise above and not bad mouth  other kids her age and move on?   Is good parenting calling the parents, demanding their kid still gets to hang out, and make their kid conform to others.

What the heck is wrong with you?[/quote]

You should be directing that to the other poster, who was indeed judgmental, smug, and bi---y. [/quote]

Not even in the slightest were they smug. I just read it. They were honest. Stop pointing fingers and bad mouthing kids and definitely don’t teach your kids to do that.  You don’t know the whole story. Your response was immature and embarrassing. [/quote]

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