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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My big why - if women aren't in the workforce, men will be running everything, making the decisions, shaping the world we live in - and that's not good for my daughters.

That being said, SAH and WOH both suck for me. As a SAHM I missed having a deeper purpose in life, and as a WOHM I desperately missed my kids. As a SAHM I had to beg my H for money, and as a WOHM I had to beg my H to help with the kids. I'll be damned if I ever have to do those again.

What has worked well for me is I started my own business WAH and hired a nanny. So I get the rewards of work and financial security, and I get to see and play with my babies throughout the day, plus I have all the flexibility I need for family life. [/quote]

I think it would be very hard to find anybody who thinks women should not be in the workforce.  The issue is what is the best start for children when they are infants and toddlers, before they start school full time at about age 5.  Many parents, not just women, believe their children will get a better start in life and have a better daily experience with a loving parent home caring for them during those early years.  Some parents don't believe that, they think paid childcare is just as good as parent care.  Each family has to decide for themselves what they believe, what they can afford, and what the whole family will benefit most from.

Your solution sounds well thought out and clearly works well for you.  [/quote]

It’s cute to say women “belong in the workforce” and then advocate for 5+ year gaps in their professional careers. I certainly wouldn’t let a surgeon touch me who hadn’t held a scalpel in five years. So by “women belong in the workforce” what you mean is “women belong in subservient, lesser roles, even in the workplace”

No thanks. [/quote]

So you disagree that each family should figure out what is most important to them and then design their life around that the best they can?  What I'm getting from your response is you believe there is only one solution.[/quote]

Oh you’re for people designing their lives in a way that works for them now? I thought you were busy thinking that being home with a parent for five years w
was what was “best” for children. Please return to leaving people alone to shape their lives in the way they see fit, smart enough to know that a 5-10 year working gap will mean very limited professional opportunities for success.[/quote]

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