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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Legacy is a problem, but kids getting into schools because of sports is an even bigger problem. Those two student populations take a significant number of spots at top schools.  A kid could be busting their ass, and an athlete who has a weaker transcript & test scores will get it. [/quote]

If it's that easy, teach your kid how to play lacrosse. [/quote]

My kid used athletic talent to access high academic college.  I can't control that that is the system, so we played that game, but it's a silly criteria to use to help gain admittance to a place for academic pursuits.

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This is our approach. I don't control the system. I don't like it. But I'm not changing it. So we are going to try to use sports as a hook in. So far, so good. We'll see how DC lands in the end (high stats -so far- and high level of play in the sport). [/quote]
I think parents should play with whatever cards they were dealt with because the college admission process is a brutal game.  My neighbor played the sports card and their child is at Harvard.   Great kid, but his mother was very strategic about the college admission process from the time this kid was in middle school.  Sports can take you places.   As a matter of fact every child that I know who has received a full ride at top universities all played sports.   Good luck to your child.   [/quote]

Doesn't work out that way for most sports kids.  Just look at the number of people dumping $15-20K/year into travel sports.  Then consider how many full scholarships there are in DI, DII and DIII schools in the USA.  The odds are still against you (keep in mind that beyond DI, most kids are not there on FULL scholarships, some are but not most).  In reality, if you saved and invested the $15-20K/year spent since age 7 in travel sports, you would have more than enough to pay for Harvard or any other $80K/year university.

I've watched several families dedicate their lives (and their wallets) to sports from a young age in hope that their kid would get a scholarship.  Very few are even playing in college with a scholarship.  Most that are on even partial scholarship are at a D3 school.  Their kid could have easily gotten into those D3 safety schools (none are elite or even 2nd tier) on academics alone and parents could have easily paid for college with the money from sports.

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We are not dumping near that much per year into my child's sport. It's more than I care to spend but nowhere near that. And that didn't even start until the past year or so (going into 10th). We have no delusions about scholarships but are hoping for some "merit" aid. Even if that doesn't materialize, at the very least it may be a "hook" into a school that otherwise would not be there. We -can- full pay, though it will be a brutally painful 4 years of doing nothing but funding college to do it. Yay for us for being in that middle bucket of not "poor" but not "rich", yet deemed rich on paper. 
Oh well. [/quote]

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