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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm kind of amazed. In public, people will say things like,

"Giving up a child for adoption is a gift! So selfless!"

But it turns out that they really think:

"Poor and stressed mothers OUGHT to give up their children for adoption, or else they are selfish. And they should relinquish them on my timetable, too, because I wanted a baby YESTERDAY."

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My child's birth mom is dead.  You are really obnoxious.  [/quote]

Are you just not able to see the larger picture  in this topic or are you a narcissist with a low IQ that generalizes everything to your experience? Secondly- you've been entrusted with a kid (!) considering your limited world view and lack of empathy-that alone clarifies some of the  concerns here. You'd best bolster your arguments by probably just not commenting.  You aren't doing the adoptive community any favors. [/quote]

I  am being very serious  that my child's birth mom is  dead.  Sorry you  have no empathy and would rather push your agenda.  This rant shows you have zero empathy.[/quote]

So, an adopted child might have an agenda,  and  is pushing this agenda?  And who is the adopted child supposed to have empathy for? The adoptive  parent? You? Do you even hear yourself?

See, you just cannot see outside  of your own situation. Your child's birth mother is dead. So what? How on earth  does that change  any narrative here? It's clear that you have basic  and quite severe comprehension issues.  You have no relevant points with with to debate, you continually repeat that "everyone needs help and therapy"- and you parrot everyone's comment back to whomever is writing. It's almost  like a child's taunt "Whatever you saayyy goes baack to yoou....."  over and over,  all the while not realizing that your stance is the EXACT reason there's many complex  issues in the adoption  arena. I mean, quite apart from the debate- you are really just too limited, for lack of  stronger word, [b](even though we all know there is a better word)[/b], to be in this discussion.  You aren't adding anything here other than proving a lot of points, unfortunately.  You needed a lot more counseling before you were allowed to adopt.  I suggest the sooner the better before  your kid is older. You will need it. There's going to be some surprises in your future and you have not one tool with which to cope. [/quote]

Thanks for confirming for us all what you are -- trash.[/quote]

The PP waa only trying to say that you are as dumb as a rock. I don't mind saying it outright.[/quote]

I’m not the person quoted, but good try.[/quote]

You are so immature, I began to wonder, are we actually conversing with a child? Are you under 18? [/quote]

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