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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh come on. Why couldn't they come a little early?  Is your mental health hanging by that much of a thread?  Park  them in front of the TV or let them  help. I would  have been put out too. I think you were petty here and maybe there's other issues with them...I don't know. They are family,  not  dinner party guests.  They should feel more welcome, and you made them  feel like invited acquaintances. [/quote]
F no. OP made a clear boundary based on her needs, end of discussion. [/quote]

No, it's not the end of discussion  :wink: , but you love those boundaries,  is that right? It's all a matter of perception. She  calls it boundary setting, but many would call it rigidity and immaturity.  All they wanted was to come a few f- ing hours early.  And then she used her sanity as an excuse. This is from the "oh puleeeze Hall of Fame."

There are plenty here who have issues with boundaries with inlaws...real issues.  In this case, OP is just kind of mean.

I'm on team MIL, and I'm sure she'll have a great time with this example going forward when she is commiserating with her friends. [/quote]

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