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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How far is the drive? Are they trying to avoid traffic? This is such a small potatoes thing you're looking for a reason to be mad and found one. Invite them in then tell them you need to "freshen up" and spend some alone time in your room.[/quote] There is no traffic on tbe drive I don’t want to hide in my room. I want to use my house to get ready for them and for Christmas. I think it is reasonable when you have guests to ask them to arrive at a certain time on Christmas Eve. People have things to prepare [/quote] I think here is the problem. They are made to feel they are guests that you are entertaining. They are family driving a distance for a family holiday. The way you perceives them is not how they assume their son perceives them. To him, his parents are coming over. To you, they are invited guests. Have to say- makes me a little sad. [/quote]
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