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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I had just finished school and was interviewing for my first job, I was pumped to work. Husbands and children were far from my mind, and the last thing I would speak of in an interview. Same goes for everyone I knew in the same situation. Now, you might respond that perhaps she has different ideas and priorities than I had in my early 20s. And that ther's nothing wrong with that. and you would have a point. But this was a job interview. These are our CAREERS. We think they are important, and [b]we were just turned off by someone that seemed to see the position as a placeholder for a husband and kids.[/b] Going through 400 resumes is exhausting. So is interviewing. We did not want to have to do it again in a year, and risk losing an FTE. We only get a small snapshot ofma person in an interview. It is possible to make a mistake, but it is an imperfect process. You have to be very careful as to the picture you present.[/quote] Another possibility is that you didn't want to complete with a younger, prettier, possibly smarter, female that might attract more attention from the guys in the office. She would come in on Monday's talking about her hot dates while you would struggle to remember the last time you and your husband were intimate. She would be a daily reminder that you have aged, gained weight, slowed down, and lost your edge. Bitter indeed. [/quote]
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