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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks all. We both work in law. DH is working on many more complicated deals now which is why the hours are so bad.

I am at a different firm that is also pretty demanding. Neither of us really has the ability to but back our hours and while I could take somewhat of a step back with less pay,
I can’t find any firms that actually have that option. No one wants a lawyer who is only willing to work 40 hours per week. I have interviewed for in house jobs too in the past but nothing has been the right fit.

I really don’t want to outsource more related to my kids because I want to be with them, which is my top priority in the mornings and after work until they go to bed.

[b]We need a good income because we have one in private elementary, eventually two, a nice house, nice cars, etc.[/b] we could certainly be a bit more frugal with cars and things, but not education.

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Having to work long hours is one thing.  Choosing is different.  They choose to live in a big house, drive luxury cars, and send the kids to private school, and to keep up with that, they work contstantly.  They’re choosing the trappings of luxury over an actual lifestyle that would allow for enjoyment and spending time together.
Ask your children what THEY need. Do they want private school, nice house, nice cars, or do they want to know their parents? You sound materialistic and shallow. I hope your nanny shows the kids love and attention. [/quote]

I think this is unfair. I'm sure OP loves her kids and shows them that. Having to work long hours doesn't make you a bad parent. Let's not mom shame here. [/quote][/quote]

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